Can somebody please tell me when did dating get to be so darn hard? When you're in your in you're 20's, 30's it seem so easy and comfortable. Now it feels like work, I used to wonder why men and women over 45 and especially over 50 are single. Even at this age people still don't know what they want, men say they want a strong black women and as women we say we want a good man. What does that mean a good man? Maybe I'm living in a different world but I really believe that there is still some decent men in the world. Most women want a man who will be a good provider and when you're over 50 that is basically someone who is now just ready to share their lives with some one who shares the same values. In my case someone who has old school values when it comes to dating. Walks in the park, picnics, dinners for 2, date nights yet still be able to know when that person needs some alone time to give it to them, without feeling shut out. Dating never felt this hard before. I look around at some of the married couples that I know who have been married for over 20 plus years and wonder to myself, what is the secret? They say there is someone for everyone, but have you ever wondered if you've met your somebody already and let them pass you by? Sometimes I do, and then I wonder if we only get 1 chance at a true love. Right now I am just thankful for my friends male and female. If anyone can tell me the secret to successful dating in 2011 I would love to hear your comments.
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