What do I mean by that? Well recently someone that I was talking to statrted acting very strange, so i'm asking myself what's going on? Call were few and in between, text messages stopped coming as often as they were. So one day this person sends me a message about his kids and the fact that he thought we were moving to fast. I don't know how fast he actually thought we were going since my schedule is so hectic.Anyway he prceded to tell me that he wanted to reconnect with his kids and try and build a relationship with them. I don't have a problem with anyone being with their children I have kids and although they are all adults we do spend alot of time togeher. To continue he also thought I wanted him to spend all his time with me, not! I like to spend time with my man but I do not need all of your time, I need for them to have their own life but still make me a priority. Now here is where the wrong words came in, he asked me to be a good friend and just be patient. Okay that's what he got I have no problem being your friend but you need to know that friends don't get as much attention as boyfriends do. So when I stopped calling and texting or even responding to his Facebook post he then realized that what he said may have been the wrong words. With me yes they are and i'm sure with anyone else they would feel the same way. When you tell me all you want is a good friend that is what you're going to get. But you need to know that I do not sleep with my friends. So the next time you are feeling a little overwehelmed in your relaionship whether it be a new one or you've been togeher for a while be careful with the words you use, think before you speak.
Talk to you soon.........
