MEN DON'T HEAL THEY HOLD............

          I heard this on Micheal Baisdens show and it was a topic we all know to well. The art of forgiveness, why do men find it hard to forgive their wives or girlfriends when they cheat? I'm not really sure i beleive it is a matter of "somebody been in my sh.t" they start to feel like you have found some one better. Well on this particular show one man called in and commented that he could frogive a sexual affair but when women emotionally cheat he said he would have to let it go. How do you compete with emotional infidelity? The feelings are already gone, but for most women that is where the sexual affair start with the emotional affair. When women step out on a relationship it is usually because something is missing at home emotionally, he stopped saying i love you, you stop holding hands or you simply just start taking each other for granted.
         While most relationship can be worked out if both parties are willing to work on it and learn to forgive.
This also goes for women too, because we find it hard to forgive on any level sexual emotional it doesn't matter, because for me my mind goes to i know what he does with me so is he doing the same thing with her. That is the only thought you need, because from that point on you will always look at him and think "where have your lips been? don't kiss me". I speak from experience as someone who didn't feel the love at one time and it really did start with a friend who started listening to my problems and then as the cliche goes one thing led to another. Which relationship it was will go to my grave with me, and i have been on the other side too, had to let go of a relationship due to finding out about and confirming cheating. I may be wrong but cheating is something i can not live with, not now and not anymore. Living right these days and it feels good. Telling your partner what you need emotionally and sexually which ever area is suffering will save your relationship. Trust me they want to know, so men tell your woman you love her, call her during the day just to see how she's doing, send her flowers just because, start a date night, take walks go back to the courting days of your relationship. And women accept and receive these things that some of your men are trying to do for you, don't shut them down, FYI  this works for both parties........ WISHING EVERYBODY IN TROUBLED RELATIONSHIPS THE BEST, AND FOR THOSE THAT ARE MAKING IT WORK I'M HAPPY FOR YOU.Maybe you can share some of your tips to a happy and long lasting relationship.........