I think I can safely say that there is, Yet again I met someone who I thought would have been the right fit for me, we talked for a long time before we ever met, and we seemed to have the same interest, want the same things out of a relationship. Well I was wrong, I did something for him for his birthday and he was really suprised. We had the most intimate night that I have ever experienced without having sex. It was nice, but since then something has changed. I haven't seen him since then, he sent me a message about his aunt passing, and that he was going through something that he was struggling with. He keeps telling me that he wants to talk to me in person but really how hard is it for you to talk when you have someone who is willing to stand by you. It's not unless you were not truthful from the start, I always seem to attract men who say that they want a relationship and that they want a strong black woman, but when it really comes down to it they don't know what they want. I am so tired of hearing you are such a sweet woman, you are very patient person. Yes all of this is true I am all of that and more, it is just a shame that it's usually after the relationship is over and we have gone into friend phase that they realize they messed up. I have so many friends what I need now is a life partner someone I can spend my life with and do the things couples do. September I don't want to date another man who's birthday is between the 1st and 15th, it does not work for me, this has been more than 3 strikes. I do not need one more person telling me they have issues that they have to work through, as a friend I can help but as a girlfriend and someone that you wanted to meet that is asking too much. Men really do need to fix and figure out what they want and be totally honest when they approach a female that they think may be their life partner. We deserve the truth whatever it is.
Til next time......
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